Testimonies

Roelofke de Haan

The most precious moments in my Paradigm Shift group where the moments that we as a group came to about of "I've had it with you (guys)". Moments that we felt like running away from each other. At that point we chose again for each other, despite of everything. For me, those where the most precious moments, because after an evening like that, I experienced so much love for everybody in the group. And I learned that if you chase your vision long enough, your feelings will follow automatically.  It reminds me of the love of God for us. No matter how often we fail, He chooses for us!

Mark Abbes

I'm learning that I can choose for myself. I don't have to leave myself out for others. By making my own feelings and desires known I'm noticing more life in my surroundings than before: in the end the confrontation will produce more life than keeping it for myself; making my desires known teaches people close to me to respond to that: they know what I need now.